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Signs
Signs mean different things to different
people, however. Veils, headcoverings and scarves mean many things
(power, religious solidarity, privacy, modesty, etc.) to the many
different groups who wear them. Among the Tuareg of North Africa,
for example, men wear face veils; women
do not. Furthermore, men do not begin to wear them until
they have reached a certain age, thus indicating a link between
gender and maturity. El Guindi explains:
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The veil is worn continually by
men - at home, traveling, during the evening or day, eating or
smoking, sleeping and even, according to some sources, during
sexual intercourse. To eat, a Tuareg 'carefully raises the veil
enough to enable him to eat but not far enough for his mouth to
be seen [for if he] ...lowers his veil to eat [he] reveals his
low status'[.] A noble, explains Murphy, does not expose his mouth[.]
And again, the pattern connecting the veil (or other forms of
dress) and maturation, which has been described among a number
of groups, exists among the Tuareg. The veil is a mark of maturity.
Only as a youth approaches maturity, at about the age of seventeen,
does he wear a veil. Unveiled youths and slaves do much of the
menial work and the herding. Tuareg women are not face-veiled
at all, but they do pull their shawls across the lower parts of
their faces when expressing reserve - a behavioral pattern that
re-emerges in the ethnography of veiling. (124.)
Even Judeo-Christian rituals point
to the tradition of an acquired gender. The acts of becoming a bar
mitzvah or a bat mitzvah, for example, are celebrations
of the rites of passage for children who become religiously responsible
men and women, respectively, in the eyes of their community. A boy's
wearing of the yarmulke, or kippa sugra, and the girl's
construction of it ( in certain cases) also help to mark gender
differences. A similar ritual occurs among some Episcopalian Christians.
At adolescence, Episcopalians become "confirmed" men and women within
their religious community.
Gender or
Sex?
It's important to emphasize that dress
may convey a person's gender, not necessarily their biological sex.
For example, in some societies, biological males will become women,
and vice-versa, often out of social necessity. In many societies,
the roles of men and women are clearly defined in terms of labor
and inherited wealth. In the case of some Samoan and Native American
societies, if a family has no daughters to perform traditional "women's
work," the families will opt to "transform" a biologically male
child, into a girl. Among Samoans this "third gender" is known as
fa'afafine.
The institution [...] is seen as
a necessary adjustment for the proportions of women needed in
their balanced society. [...T]hese 'women' find sexual partners
amongst young men of their villages, never other fa'afafine. 'That
would be lesbianism' explains Mishie, one fa'afafine,
with horror. 'We only go with straight men, and we always take
the passive role in sex'.' [...] According to the folklore of
Polynesian culture, one of the male siblings in a family was often
raised as a fa'afafine if there were not enough biological
females to deal with domestic chores. 'The child was dressed like
a girl and was expected to behave like one - that is, to cook
and clean, play nursemaid to elderly relatives [...] When he grew
up the fa'afafine would not marry but devote himself to
caring for his elderly parents[.]" (Young, 114.)
A similar transition occurs in some
northern Albanian families. In cases where a family has only daughters,
the family may opt to transform a child who is a biological female
into a boy. Because a family's wealth is inherited through males,
this transformation allows the wealth to stay within the family,
instead of being inherited by a non-blood relative, such as the
male spouse of a daughter. These "women who become men" are known
as "Sworn Virgins."
Protection
Sometimes genders are switched for
protection against evil spirits. The practice was known among some
English in the nineteenth century, and elsewhere, explains Pearl
Binder:
Girls being universally less valued
than boys, every device was used, both in Asia and in Europe,
to trick the demons into believing the boy child was really a
girl child. In Europe, as recently as a century ago, boys were
dressed as girls until the age of seven. (74.)
In Euro-American culture, these people
would be branded with labels such as transsexual, transvestite or
homosexual. And yet the motives for their dress are not erotic or
sexual at all. Dress is simply a means to acquire a new gender in
order to achieve social mobility.
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